The Hardest Things You'll Experience When You're a Parent

Deciding to have a child should require careful planning and preparation. When you become a parent, you no longer only think about yourself and your partner. You should also think of a child you invited to come to this world.

 
If you look at the recent national news headlines, there are a lot of criminal cases committed by minors. For example, in a recent case, three children killed another child for the sale of organs.

How can such a cruel thing be done by children who basically have subtle feelings and fear?

I can confirm that the parents of the criminals are actually not ready to become parents. 

This article will talk about the hardest thing you will experience when you become a parent. Check it out until it's finished.

Re Parenting

Before deciding to have children, it's a good idea for prospective parents to educate themselves. Understand what has been traumatic in the past, realize what kind of parenting patterns you receive from parents, recognize whether there are good and bad effects of your parents' parenting.
 
Once you realize and know it, immediately enlist the help of an expert such as a psychiatrist or psychologist to help heal your wounds. Don't be shy to do so. Both professions exist in this world to help people who need their services.
 
If you are aware of the good things you get from your parents' parenting, then talk to your partner about whether the parenting style you get will be applied to your children?

How many children who are innocent and don't know what because they are present to the world feel the chain of bad parenting?  Your job before becoming a parent is to break the chain of bad parenting.
 

Descipline

 
Discipline yourself before applying discipline to the child. Of course, you want a disciplined child, right? To accustom discipline to the child, parents must first do it. 
 
Remember, the child is an accomplished imitator, not a good listener.
 
Before having children, educate yourself to be disciplined on a daily schedule, disciplined to keep distractions away when eating, and disciplined in putting things up. Will it be possible to learn it later? Of course you can. But remember again, being disciplined takes the name of habit.

 
 Dividing Parenting Roles with Spouses 
 

The division of parenting roles becomes the most important thing in educating children. Mom and Dad have their own roles and responsibilities in educating children. The child needs two parental figures in the period of his development into an adult.
 
Losing just one figure can give a mark on a child's attitude and personality. Talk to the couple about this division of roles. Of course, each couple has their own way and division. But make sure you are always present and present in the process of the child's life.
 

Determining What Look At The World You Want To Entrust To Your Child

 
Instilling the values of life must definitely be done by parents. The question is, do you already have the view that it will be entrusted to the child? Start by discussing, reading books and asking people you believe in.
 
Determining what value will be instilled in children has a long impact on your life as a parent. This will later be related to parenting, school selection, neighborhood selection and your treatment of children.
 
Because the point above is the hardest thing you will experience when you become a parent, then be prepared. The parent is the first human being the child meets, and the first school he will learn from.